Stop Optimizing Your Website and Start Optimizing Relationships

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Optimize Your RelationshipsRelationships are everything in your business. Without them, you don’t have a business. You have relationships with your customers. You have relationships with your referral sources. You have relationships with your stakeholders. You have relationships with your internal team. If you could optimize every one of these relationships with your community, don’t you think your business would grow ten-fold? Of course it would. But, in the digital world the problem comes when you ONLY focus on optimizing your digital media channels versus optimizing the relationships that exist inside of them.

The problem with traditional thought

By now you’ve probably heard at least 100 people tell you that you need to increase website traffic, Facebook likes, Twitter followers, LinkedIn connections, etc. These types of statistics are known as “Vanity Metrics.” These are metrics that don’t tell you ANYTHING about your actual relationships. Oh, and the so-called “Engagement statistics” don’t really cut it either. They typically measure comments, shares, etc. What most companies fail miserably at measuring are the actual relationships within these channels. The people that actually care about you. The people whose lives would change if you or your brand didn’t exist. Think about that for a minute.

When you focus most of your time and money on optimizing our website and other channels, you lose track of the 5 new people you met last week that could help make a difference. They start to lose track of you. You become less relevant.

Your email newsletter isn’t cutting it

Oh, and just sending your email newsletter to them is not going to cut it. For example, we have several digital marketing agencies who serve as referral sources to Social HubSite – a brand community solution. The ultimate goal is to send and receive more referrals with them. The content we send them from our blog might spark their interest, but not their full attention. What sparks their full attention is when we post an extremely relevant update in our very own Social HubSite (private online community in this case) through the “Referral Sources” group.

The content we share in the referral group might contain videos that we record on how to identify a good prospect, marketing documents, events, etc. THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF EMPOWERING YOUR COMMUNITY. If we would have taken the same time and focused SOLELY on adjusting our page titles to match a slightly higher search phrase, we would limit the number of referrals we get in an extreme way.

Focus your content to people that matter

The key here is to not just look at your content marketing as creating masterpiece articles. You’ll be no different than your competitors, especially in 2014 where most marketing departments have employed similar strategies. Don’t get me wrong, articles are a great way to demonstrate expertise, trust and value, but need some form of follow up to solidify the relationship. Otherwise, people say “Hey, great article”, but forget who the heck wrote it. That’s the missing piece of the puzzle.

Focus on relationships

In short, think about the groups of people surrounding your organization. What do they value? What interests them? What do they need to be truly “empowered”? How can you grow the community of people around your organization? Stop solely thinking about how to optimize digital media channels (website, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc.). If one day Google came out with a new algorithm called Monkey that moved you to page 2 or 3 for a search term, you could be left with nothing.

I’m NOT saying not to optimize your website properly, just don’t focus 100% of your time, attention and money on it. At the end of the day you need relationships to meet business objectives. Focus on OPTIMIZING RELATIONSHIPS and you’ll have a business that sustains itself over the long haul.

One way to start optimizing your relationships without it requiring a full time person or taking up all of your time is through a Managed Community plan at Social HubSite. It encompasses taking care of the necessary tasks and creating content that empowers you to focus on optimizing your relationships. Click here to take a deeper look.

  • Jeremy Marchant
    Jeremy Marchant

    Without doubt the best blog I’ve seen for ages!
    Mind you, it’s a bit like the book, Feel the fear and do it anyway (which is more than relevant to this issue for many people): everything is in the title. You could have stopped there, really.

    • Jason Verdelli
      Jason Verdelli

      Thanks Jeremy 🙂 What part do you like the most?

  • Craig Allan
    Craig Allan

    Brilliant Blog Jason, I have a client that I’m having to educate this very issue to them!
    Although we do SEO, PPC and the like, we take the next step (often to the surprise of the client) to over-arch all these activities with an Integrated Marketing approach… the relationships between people still binds us all together and is needed even more in the Digital Economy.

    • Jason Verdelli
      Jason Verdelli

      Exactly Craig! SEO, PPC and other services are still necessary to optimize channels, but ultimately it comes down to the mindset that we are serving people, not machines. This should be the very core of thought before even thinking of optimizing channels. It will help with deciding what kind of content to write, who to write it for, etc.

      Thanks for reading the post! Do you have a link you can share to your website? I’m always interested in building relationships to become a better referral source. Thanks Craig 🙂

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